There are 3 segments that guys can be divided into: the bad boy, the nice guy, and the good guy.
Quite often people put the nice guys up against the bad boy. Probably because there exists two extreme cases of individuals in terms of behaviours and social apt. Yet it seems that the good girls, the ones that you want to take home to show off to mama, are going after the good guys.
So what constitutes a good guy?
Top 10 things that makes a good guy:
1) He’s working towards something. He has a goal in mind and knows what he wants. He understands the value of hard work.
2) He takes care of himself and his body and he is always looking and feeling his best.
3) He is willing to walk away at any moment at the sight of second class behavior that doesn’t live up to his expectations.
4) He possesses a core set of values that he doesn’t sway from. He’s never a a “yes” guy and changes for another person.
5) He is very social with people and seems to get everyone to like him. He’s approachable, down to earth and always looking to have a good time.
6) He’s confident about himself and his abilities.
7) Jealousy is never a factor with him. He is well above the insecurities that others feel and understands his true worth.
Never worried and apologetic for his opinions. He supports them with valid arguments and always welcomes a challenge to his viewpoints.
9) His time is very valuable to him. If he thinks you’re wasting his time, he’ll make you aware of it in a subtle way.
10) He easily gets recommendations from others
Now girls, if the above 10 points constitutes a good guy. The next question that comes to mind is, how do you find these good guys?
It’s not easy.
Just like it takes work, commitment, and a steadfast regimen to be a good guy, So too is the process in finding them.
So what can you do to get the ball rolling and expedite the process?
Maybe I’ll tell you later when I come back from the gym………stay tuned.
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