If attracting women is one of the areas that you find difficulty in, you have certainly come to the right place. During the next 5 minutes I am going to tell you TEN tips that you can use to attract the type of women you want in your life. Most of what you are going to read is common sense, but they are the key characteristics that are going to make a HUGE difference in the way women perceive you.
How to Attract Women: The top 10 laws of attraction
1. Get your life together. Everything starts from within. Women can sense your inner energy better than you could ever comprehend. What’s inside of you transends into your outward zen. There are alot of people who are dealing with issues such as job stress, family problems, depression, constipation, withdrawal etc. You need to get to a point where your sense of happiness and energy explodes from your body and you’re perceived as an overall great person to hang out with. Even if you don’t feel it, fake it until you make it! If you don’t get to this point, she’ll never look forward to hanging out with you. She is looking to have fun, let loose and not worry about the stuff she’s going through. Why would she want to hang out with someone who can’t resolve their own problems and cause more problems for herself?
2. Get a hobby. Being around someone who has a great passion for something is highly attractive. I, myself, am drawn to people to have a passion, we all are. Normally people who have a passion for something are happy with themselves and who they are, and they want to experience and explore new things. Having a hobby also creates a good dialogue and conversation between two people because normally people talk about their interests. It also becomes a good opener to invite her to your hobby if it’s a sport or recreational event. One of the most boring things and unattractive trait is for a person to not have any interests!
3. Be scarce with your time. Too much of a good thing is never good. Every time you’re having a good time with her, don’t over stay your welcome, in fact, you want to under stay. This will have her wanting more for next time. If she’s having a great time with you and suddenly dissapear, you’ll have her thinking about trying to find and be with you. Also, don’t be available every time she wants to do something. Make her fit into your schedule versus you fitting into hers.
4. Have Confidence. Whatever you do you MUST project confidence. Have conviction when words come out of your mouth. Don’t second guess yourself in any situation. You have to be able to commit to your stance on opinions and viewpoints. Lack of confidence usually stems from #1.
5. Use body language to your advantage. With 90% of communication being non-varbal, being in control and perfecting key maneurisms can make your presence known to a woman. Your physique must be inviting! From the way you walk, move your arms while you talk, or the way you stand while close to her, every move is counted. Always make sure you have good posture when you’re around her. No slouching or having a round back. Good body language often communicates that a man is strong, confident and can be protective when the situation requires it.
6. Humour. Who can resist a person who is exceptionally funny? The ability to be spontaneous and funny is a trait that goes extremely far. It’s hard to “become” a funny person. There isn’t a switch that someone can turn off and on. Humour comes from life experience and the ability to connect dots between two entities to make something mind numbingly obvious but delivered in a charismatic and energetic fashion. Delivery of the joke is key too. A joke or comment without a great delivery won’t get you far and will probably end up backfiring on you. You never want to be on the receiving end of a girl not getting your joke.
7. Be charming. Charm and wit are two things that can muster up interest in a woman. I don’t care how unattractive someone looks, if you have a charm that resonates with her you will be sitting pretty. Being charming takes a while to perfect and it usually takes many experiences with different women to get it right. Every ladies dream is to be with a prince Charming, I know it sounds cliche, but they wouldn’t be looking for their prince if it wasn’t a quality that women actively seek out!
8. Social status. Ever walked into the room only to see a guy talking to everyone and being the life of the party? He
schmoozes with the doormen, talks up to the shy guy all alone in the back and seems to know the majority of the people at the party. You need to become that person in any situation. When there is a person in front of you, start up a conversation. When people make eye contact with you in an elevator, say something random! When she sees that your social status is higher than HERS and you lead the way in communicating your presence to everyone she’ll instantly be drawn to you and want to be by your side.
9. Demonstrate value. Whether it’s constantly learning new things or being up-t0-date with current events, make sure every time you are around her, you create some type of value. Also make sure that you indirectly do this and that you do not boast to her in a direct way of what you’re doing. Women don’t like men who boast about things.
10. Smile. A white bright smile goes a long way and sends signals of happiness and energy. I left this for last because you’ll remember this last and remember to use it first when you’re around a woman!
If you work on these core 10 items, you will be well on your way to attracting women and being a happier person.
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I completely agree with 10…smile…1st impressions really matter…and there is nothing better than a person who is so confident, he is willing to acknowledge his weaknesses…
Awesome post! I’d love more males to read mine and share their perspective…
Thanks!
Hi Special K,
Thanks for the comment. Yes confidence and smiling goes a LONG way. Thanks for reading. I’ll definitely take a look at your blog to see what you’re writing about!
The Relationship Guy.
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Patience Dave. Patience! Rome wasn’t built overnight. Thanks for stopping by!
The Relationship Guy.
I think you have given some good tips which I have missed out, My pleasure to come across your blog and read it, keep posting.
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Thanks for the comment Cameron. Hope you come back for future posts!
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Thanks for the kind words! I’m hoping many other people find value in the content of this site.
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I have dated nearly 500 guys and the two things I keep trying to teach them is get your life together and limit your time with me. So often they would call me within moments of the date and want to know when they could see me again. I would remind them again and again women don’t like it when we feel like we are your whole life. I read these articles all day long and this is one of the first that I loved the whole thing. You did leave out pay for the date don’t be cheap, they can be perfect in every way and then still try and walk out on the check saying they are tired of paying for women. Hey guys we still want romance seduction and manners sorry.
@Christina Thanks for the good words regarding this post. I completely agree with you. People don’t want to be smothered and be around the same person all the time. Don’t people should have their own lives. When they do get together, it will make things that more interesting.
Thanks for posting!
-Therelationshipguy
I agree with your tip that Humor attracts a girl. Definitely it is because most girls are drawn into someone who has good sense of humor whether he isn’t good looking. This is absolutely true because looks are just for superficial beauty, charming personality is still important.
Great blog by the way
@Filipino Girls Humour and laughter makes relationships lively and fresh. It makes people feel young! Thanks for the comment.
-The Relationship Guy
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