Have you ever really liked a girl/woman before only to have her REJECT you and have her tell you that she isn’t interested?
Here are 5 reasons why she just isn’t into you:
1) Attraction If she isn’t attracted to you, chances are it’s not going to go far. However, some people think that attraction is only physical. That’s far from the truth my friends. Pretend there was an Average Joe who liked a girl, and this girl wasn’t “attracted” to the guy physically. But luck would have it, that the Average Joe, in 2 years, started a company worth millions of dollars and started fly all over the place working on business deals. That Average Joe doesn’t seem so Average anymore…..Why do you think Beyonce is going out with Jay-Z? He isn’t good looking… Enough said. Just because she’s not physically attracted to you, it doesn’t mean she CAN’T be attracted to you.
2) Show her the money It’s not hard to notice that women make their own money these days. They need someone to complement them and know that they can take care of themselves. It’s an added bonus that the man makes more money than the woman. If you don’t have your finances together, chances are, it ain’t going to go far. But if luck has it that you’re currently not making money, but you have the potential to have a great job in the future, then that’s OK too. Just as long as you’re working toward something that eventually has a payoff.
3) Just not their type. Everyone has a “type”. But it’s not the BE ALL, END ALL. We sometimes deviate from our type if the right person comes along. If you’re not doing something to allow the woman to sway from her type and you aren’t her type, THEN you probably know why she’s rejecting you.
4) You’re not that interesting. Women like to have a good time. They like funny, witty, spontaneous, and experienced people. Don’t be surprised that she rejects you when you both fight tooth and nail to muster up a conversation with each other. It’s probably due to you both not having a lot of things in common. Being interesting can’t be taught. You can’t read an article and magicly become interesting. It comes from life experience . Go out and start experiencing things!
5) You suck at kissing. Intimacy is a key component to relationships. If you’re just not good at it, it’s a huge turn off. You never want to make the girl do all the work. And you never want her to complain to her girlfriends how horrible a kisser you are. That’s a conversation you never want to be included in.
There you have it. The 5 top reasons why you know she’s just not into you. Obviously there are more reasons as to why a woman isn’t interested in someone but these sum up the most obvious ones when a guy first wants to know why he’s being rejected.
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