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This is a guest blog post by Razor from Social Breakthrough
I’ve lived in Toronto all my life and a common theme I hear from fellow PUAs here is that Toronto girls are harder to pick up than in other places. Growing up I accepted this belief and believed it as truth. In fact there were times I was having a good conversation and things were going smoothly with a girl, when I suddenly remembered that Toronto girls were “snobby” or “hard to talk to”. It wasn’t long after thinking that that I messed up the interaction.
Girls from Toronto have been called many things such as snobby, stuck up, into themselves and hard to get. I’ve even heard guys say if you’re good with Toronto girls you can pickup easily anywhere else in the world. I bet when these guys started off as AFC’s and had zero success they convinced themselves of this even more.
The irony is when I started socializing with more people; there were guys from other countries who were absolutely convinced that girls from THEIR countries were the hardest to pickup. They actually said Toronto girls were easy and melted in their arms! I laughed when I met other guys from these EXACT same countries say the opposite–that girls from where they’re from are the EASIEST to pick up!
The fact is yes Canadians can come across as more conservative compared with other parts of the world. What is commonly perceived is that people from the Northern hemisphere are more conservative than countries from the Southern Hemisphere. Be careful with adopting this belief however and remember that whatever you believe in you create plain and simple. Be aware what the accepted belief (collective mentality) about girls from Toronto or Canada is and then CHOOSE whether you want to accept or reject it.
A really cool thing about living in Toronto is that you have a wide range of women from many different countries. You have a great opportunity to experience many diverse cultures, and that’s rare to find in other places.
There are women from Brazil, Singapore, Japan, Italy, Mexico, Venezuela, Lebanon and Australia all probably living on your same street! Where else you are you going to get such a diverse choice? Enjoy the beautiful buffet of women we have here my friends!
Knowing that YOU have the power to either accept or reject beliefs is VERY liberating. For example you can accept a NEW belief about Toronto girls: that they’re not all the same, and just by changing the environment you meet them in you’ll meet a huge range of different types.
If I told you to go to Denmark and had you convinced that all the girls there loved the men from your country who had your exact physical stature I GUARANTEE you would have an AWESOME time, because you would create this reality.
Try this: Go to a mall or bar and adopt the belief that every girl who is beautiful both physically and at the core is attracted to you and wants to sleep with you.
I know if you walk in TRULY believing this you would have a much more enjoyable time and your reality would create a GREAT outcome. Accepting a new belief might not be the easiest thing to do at first but keep at it and with practice you’ll see the true power you have young Jedi.
This does two incredible things. First you attract and you bring those types of people into your life and second you become the person who displays the qualities to attract these women. Not a bad combination at all!
Have fun out there,
-Razor-
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