The TorontoSpeedDate Advice Column
Jonathan from Toronto writes:
Q(Jonathan): Help - I’m a 34 year old single guy living in Toronto. I really don’t have time to meet women because I’m working most of the time. I make over 100k and can’t seem to find that special someone. What should I do?
A(Relationship Guy): All work and no play makes Johnny a very dull boy. Sure you probably have a nice place to live, a respectable and high paying job…but it sure sounds that you are missing the majority of what you’re looking for in life.
You need to have more fun! Go out and make a promise to yourself to meet new people. You will be surprised with how nice and welcoming the people in Toronto are. As long as you can talk about beer, Hockey and Government policy, you can pretty much get into any random conversation with people.
Need a specific place to go? Start with your hobbies! I find that when you do the things you’re interested in, people come into your life. It also allows you to have fun with no expectations and disappointment when things don’t happen, because after all, you are doing the things that interest you.
Bottom line. If you truly want to meet someone, you have to put yourself in situations that can allow you to meet that girl. SO DO IT!
Hope it works out for you!
P.S. Don’t stay in tonight!
-The Relationship Guy
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